Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Women of Bethany - 2012



This past weekend Mom and I attended the Women of Bethany retreat that is held yearly in Ottawa.

Here we are with a dear lady, Maureen that we had driven into the retreat. We were blessed to get to know her over the weekend.

Mom with Sheila, Gloria and Maureen at Sunday lunch.


Our beautiful view from the dining room.
 
See the Gatineau Hills?

12 noon.

I love taking pictures on Parliament Hill!

Sunday, November 4, 2012

Shawn's 25th Birthday Oct/30/12

Brother of mine
I know sometimes I may whine
But deep down I really find you somewhat divine

You are smarter than you think
Smarter than me, in some ways

You are wiser than you know
You have experienced pains and joys

Some twice your age have never seen
Because of all of this you are three times the man

Brother of mine
I could be no prouder

I could love you no more
I will always be here for you


No matter what occurs
No matter what is said or done

I will never be too far away
No matter the distance
You’ll always be in my heart
.


Happy Birthday! I love you.


Saturday, October 27, 2012

Yesterday I successfully passed my G! I'm so relieved to be finished taking driving tests (until I'm in my eighties  and need to take another one because I can't see a darn thing... but it's too soon to worry about that!)

Scotty's 22nd Birthday Oct/19/12

When we were young I followed you
We played, we fought, and had fun times together
When we grew taller..we thought we knew it all
and when one of us would fall
the other gave a helping hand
 and say, watch the lay of the land
see over there, you'll sink in quick sand
Then I went one way and you another and still, when we can, we help each other
Now we are getting just a bit older, and once again we stand side by side and shoulder to shoulder.

I've learned one thing, you've learned another, and we've both learned
there is no replacement
for one or the other! 

Happy Birthday Scotty! I love you.

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Thanksgiving 2012


:: This evening we had Thanksgiving dinner at Nana and Papa's. I just realized that I forgot to take any pictures of the food as I was uploading the pictures. Oh well, just imagine yummy turkey, stuffing, potatoes and cranberry sauce, along with apple/pumpkin pies and butter tarts! Here is me with Leah ::
 :: with Natalie and Leah ::
 :: Nana and Natalie ::
 :: Aunt Gwen and Leah washing dishes ::
 :: Father/Son ::
 :: Shawn, Scott and Nate ::
 :: with Scotty ::
 :: fun picture ::
 :: dancing! ::
 :: group pictures! ::

:: Happy Thanksgiving everyone! I hope you all had a good time with friends and loved ones ::
:: Be thankful for what you have because it could all be taken away tomorrow ::

Thursday, September 13, 2012

Hello!

Hi there, blog world! I've missed you all.. the last two months have been some of the busiest ones of my life. I took alot of pictures along the way though, so look for a long newsy post in the coming weeks!

Have a great weekend everybody!




Tuesday, July 10, 2012

A lesson on Patience


A NYC Taxi driver wrote:

I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes I honked again. Since this was going to be my last ride of my shift I thought about just driving away, but instead I put the car in park and walked up to the door and knocked.. 'Just a minute', answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.

After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90's stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940's movie.

By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.

There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.

'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.

She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.

She kept thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I told her.. 'I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.'

'Oh, you're such a good boy, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, 'Could you drive through downtown?'

'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly..

'Oh, I don't mind,' she said. 'I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice.

I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. 'I don't have any family left,' she continued in a soft voice..'The doctor says I don't have very long.' I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.

'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.

We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.

Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, 'I'm tired. Let's go now'. We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her.

I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.

'How much do I owe you?' She asked, reaching into her purse.

'Nothing,' I said

'You have to make a living,' she answered. 'There are other passengers,' I responded.

Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.

'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said. 'Thank you.'

I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light.. Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life..

I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver,or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?

Monday, July 2, 2012

Girls Day Out

First thing Friday morning, I met my friends, Louise and Tannis in Almonte for a girls day out! We went to Westport for the day. Neither Louise or Tannis had been there, so I was able to give them a grand tour...First place we went was the bakery where the worlds best butter tarts are made... they sell out fast so we bought them before 10 in the morning and put them in the cooler we brought. Crazy, I know! Tannis and LouiseFriendsThe view from our snack spotMiss Vickie is the best!Shopping! Here is Tannis trying on a lovely dress that she boughtJewelryLovely pursesCute slogansThey really wanted a picture with brother bear...Shoe shopping, I had to take a picture of this cute wall hangingOn our way out of town, we stopped to look at this Church on the top of a hill, St. Joseph's.

Great to spend time with you both! We need to do it again soon.